So, I am facing an interesting dilemma. When do I know that I am ready to go onto the next step in recovery. Right now, I would say that I am on Step 2: Hope, but I find myself wondering if I am ready to go on. I have worked through all the questions in the chapter. I have made some good progress. I think I am ready.
The problem is that I don't want to go through it too quickly. I don't want to end up doing it superficially. If I do, it will not be enough. It will not bring about the change of heart needed to overcome the addiction fully.
On the other hand, I don't want to drag it out. I don't think artificially stalling the recovery has any merit of its own. It just slows things down. If I am ready to move on, I need to do so, instead of waiting for no apparent reason.
I guess it's going to take a little more soul searching and some prayer, but I do think I am there. Don't be surprised if you start seeing posts about Step 3: Trust in God.
~Sean~
I've been there too and asked those same questions. Here's some things to think about regarding moving on to the next step. First, these are steps we will continue to work forever. So, after moving on to the next step, that doesn't mean we aren't continually working on the previous steps too. They build on each other, but we aren't perfect. We don't perfect a step before moving on - that would be impossible. Second, Satan will try everything he can to keep us from moving on to the next step. I'd say, trust your gut. If you feel like moving on, don't wait for Satan to whisper his lies to you that you're not ready or good enough or perfect, or whatever they may be. :) Good luck!!!
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